Modern discourse about sexuality has become a tug-of-war of accusation. Mention pornography, chastity, modesty, or moral responsibility, and instantly the two sexes retreat into battle formation. Women insist pornography is a male failure, and men respond with grievances of female hypocrisy, nagging or both. But beneath all the fighting, something ancient, important, and fragile is breaking. This is not a debate about porn. Not really. This is a revelation of the interior collapse of the feminine soul in this modern age; and the masculine soul as well (but I speak to women, not men). To mend what is unraveling, we must speak plainly, gently, and without fear.
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